This past year, I was pretty confused with myself, my faith, and my life in general. This summer my dad got diagnosed with cancer and no one was happy about it. We all had to step up and take care of ourselves, but also take care of dad. We couldn’t think about ourselves, not even for a minute, we were instead living on prayer and praying for another day with him. Through it all though I learned responsibility. I learned to take full care of myself, but also how to care for dad. I feel like God will use me in the future to somehow care for others and show them the love they deserve.
This fall, my neighbors started to do Safe Families. They started out by taking care of a baby named Avah and she was the sweetest like 4 month old I’ve ever seen. Close to Christmas, they got two sisters, Ariana and Mia, ages 4 and 7. I was a little bit upset because all their time was spent with them and if I wanted to hang out, it would turn into babysitting. After one visit with them, I totally fell in love with both of them. They were so sweet, but yet they had a lot to learn. We would go for walks to the park, make a “water park” in the bathtub so they would cooperate, we were like their family. One day I was sitting by them at Ally’s volleyball game and Ariana told me she had to go potty. We did not make it to the bathroom, but instead on my shirt. Yes, I was mad, but God gave me the patience. They still come back and visit and every time, it is the happiest moments of my life. I feel like through those 14 weeks of them being my neighbors, God was trying to possibly show me what my future would be like. I feel like he wants to care for not only my kids, but the kids of others as well. They made us laugh until we cried. They made us dance until we couldn’t breathe. They showed us what true love really is.
I am forever changed by both of these things, and I can’t see my life without these two things. I found a gift of care. I found what God’s love really is. I found what life is all about. I was taught very unique and different things through both events. I now have found who I am and whose I am.